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Post by kknoahmom on Aug 18, 2005 22:06:00 GMT -5
Just wanted to let everyone know that I finally have some peace after 2 long years. My Grandma was strangled 8/16/03. On 8/16/05 (2 years to the day) the wonderful investigators on the case called a meeting to let us know that my mom's husband was the person who strangled my Grandma. We have all assumed it was him from the beginning, but there was never enough evidence. Finally the DNA from a blood spot on her pajamas came back and it was his blood. Needless to say at this point it doesnt matter on the point of an arrest because he (my mom's husband) hung himself this June. I know he's paying more then we could ever make him pay on earth but it was sure would have nice to see him taken away in handcuffs!!!! Just knowing he did this for sure and the proof is there, has given me the best feeling in the world. I almost feel normal again. August 17, 2005 was the 1st day in 2 years that i didnt wake up wondering! It was a great day! So whoever is out there that has an unsolved murder..Please dont give up hope and I'll pray for you that you get your answers too!!!!!!!!
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Post by wordup on Aug 18, 2005 23:49:41 GMT -5
JUST WANT TO SAY I SHARE WITH YOU KKNOAHMOM ABOUT YOUR NEWS, THIS IS TRULY GOOD NEWS, AND I DO HOPE YOU WILL BE ABLE TO GET WHERE YOU WANT TO BE IN LIFE, GOD BLESS YOU AND MAY HE CONTINUE TO KEEP YOU.
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Post by pumpkin12903 on Aug 19, 2005 5:46:10 GMT -5
Dear Kknoahmom, this is WONDERFUL NEWS! I'm very happy for you! Yes, knowing who did it gives a lot of peace of mind. I'm amazed at those who have unsolved cases and haven't lost their sanity. I'm very happy for you that the ordeal of not knowing is over! Take care.
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Post by mattsma on Aug 19, 2005 10:16:14 GMT -5
;)Wippeeeeee, some good news for a change. Nice that you got the news on a bad day too. It gave you something to smile about on a very sad day. b-safe deb
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Post by lilbird on Aug 19, 2005 10:48:16 GMT -5
I really glad to hear you finally got some answers. i know that is some relief right there. I too can't fathom what people go through not knowing for years and years who did this to their loved one. i only had to go throught that for 2 wks and that short time drove me nuts.
and even though you had suspicions of who did this, it's great that you have actual proof.
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Post by somedaysoon on Sept 5, 2007 13:27:33 GMT -5
I am glad you got some relief also some Karma. My niece (23 years old) was found dead 5 years ago. Nobody has been charged with her murder. She left behind a beautiful baby. The day after my niece was buried her then husband to be had another man move into their place. The baby was being sexually abused by these two scums. I feel this was a well plotted murder. Get a girl pregnant. Girl has baby. They have a sex toy. My sister can't bring herself to open up the case and go thru so much pain to try and prove that these two pieces of garbage planned the death of my niece. What do I do? Just continue to be supportive for my sister as she is still greiving? She really has not had a good cry for the loss of her daughter.
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Post by drewsmom595 on Sept 6, 2007 5:33:52 GMT -5
Hi somedaysoon:
I'm so sorry about the loss of your niece. Your sister needs all your support that you can give her.
Since you feel so strongly about these two men being responsible, have you talked with your sister about you taking the lead with resurrecting what I suspect must be a cold case by now? Or is it that she just wants the entire thing dropped because she just doesn't have the energy or desire to go through a trial?
Has your sister received any counseling or gone to any support groups like Parents of Murdered Children? That could really help her as well.
I hope the baby is O.K. What a tough life that bad has had.
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Post by pumpkin12903 on Sept 6, 2007 9:45:07 GMT -5
Dear somedaysoon, I'm very sorry about your Niece. Drewsmom is right that Parents of Murdered Children is a wonderful group that gives support and info. There's a link to them on this site. I hope the baby is OK now, too and that justice is done 1 day in this case. I'm glad you found this board and hope you find some comfort here.
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Post by bk2007 on Sept 12, 2007 4:49:25 GMT -5
Dear somedaysoon...I'm so so sorry that you and your sister have had to go through so much pain. But I do think it's a great idea that Drewsmom suggested, that maybe you, who has more energy, could ask your sister if you could persue this on your own. She could either know about it as it goes or have you not share it with her until she's ready. Maybe some progress would help her a lot because she just can't do it herself. She is very fortunate to have you.
Good luck with whatever you decide, and Bless you and your sister, and the baby. Hugs to you. Barb ~
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Post by bk2007 on Sept 12, 2007 4:53:22 GMT -5
Dear kknoahmom, I am so glad you shared your story with us! It's great to hear some good news in finding answers that has made you feel so much better. It is very encouraging to people who we may never know even read that. I hope you decide to hang around with us, there are very nice people here. Barb ~
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Post by mrpsports on Sept 12, 2007 16:02:24 GMT -5
DEAR KKNOAHMOM
I AM SO VERY HAPPY FOR YOU, I NOW IT DOESN'T BRING HER BACK BUT JUST THE KNOWING WHO DID IT AND THE SCUM HAS BEEN CAUGHT IS SUCH A GREAT FEELING, MY MOTHERS WAS STANGLED AND THROAT SLIT MARCH 13th 1997 AND TO THIS DAY WE ARE STILL WERE WE WERE WHEN IT HAPPEN, THE POLICE IN BROWARD FLORIDA STINK, THEY WON'T RETURN OUR PHONE CALLS ANY LONGER, BELIEVE ME THERE ISN'T ANYTHING I HAVN'T TRIED, I EVEN ASKED TO GET TO SEE THE PRESIDENTS BROTHER WHO IS GOVENOR OF FLORIDA, I'M SURE HE COULD CARE LESS, ITS SUCH A SHAME THAT THE ELDERLY ARE MOVING TO FLORIDA JUST TO DIE IN PEACE ,BUT THE WORST THING IS ITS NOT OF NATURAL CAUSES IS OF MURDER AND NO ONE CARES THERE.
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