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Post by toniann on Apr 27, 2006 17:13:34 GMT -5
When my Jessica was killed we(My side of the family) were convinced that her cousin who killed her and then himself had been experiencing with drugs. You see we had informed the authorities a year earlier that his mother was selling meth and pot.We where scared something bad was going to happen. What Im wandering is " Is there any way I can get a copy of the autopsy report on each of them? I cant get anyone to even talk to me about such matters. ? Just thought someone might have done this and knows how I could also. toni
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Post by meme on Apr 27, 2006 20:16:08 GMT -5
In North Carolina, 2002, I went to the county office and paid $10 for a copy of the death certificate of my murdered boyfriend, Gary. I was also the Administrator of Gary's estate, so they gave me a copy despite the fact I wasn't a relative. __________________ Since you are a relative, you might be given the autopsy report also. Doesn't hurt to ask. So sorry for your loss. It's bad that people commit murder then kill themselves. I wish they would take just one life - their own.
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Post by toniann on Apr 27, 2006 20:23:43 GMT -5
THANK YOU MEME i JUST DIDNT KNOW WHERE TO GO FOR SUCH RECORDS, THE FUNURAL HOME GAVE ME HER D/C BUT EVERY TIME I CALL TO ASK ABOUT THE AUTOPSY THEY SEND ME TO SOMEONE ELSE? sorry about the caps, I watch the keyboard when i type, derrrr
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Post by wordup on Apr 28, 2006 0:25:46 GMT -5
It seems to me they would have given the parent a copy,we did get one and this came through the county, so I think you should go there or get with the DA's office, doesn't seem like this should be a problem. You think he may have had drug in his system? and what? you are thinking you and the family have been given the wrong information? Asking only because I have thought about the murderer of my grandson, that is about the drugs, but no one wanted to talk about that to me. anyway let me know what you find out. Take care.
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Post by mattsma on Apr 28, 2006 9:21:06 GMT -5
hi toniann, I finally got the nerve to read Matt's autopsy report 7 years after he was murdered. I called the county coriner's office and they sent me one free of charge. take care & b-safe deb
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Post by toniann on Apr 28, 2006 12:02:05 GMT -5
Yes I think he had drugs in his system why else would he have done something so out of character, (severly out) And see if thats the caes, A year ago when my grandpa and uncle and I called the local drug investigators, I told them in detail what his mother was doing ,even told them where in the house to find the crap. If they had even tried<which wouldnt have took much trying, things may have been different. he wasnt a user I knew him to well and I know the signs, but had it not been so easy to get to he may not have gotten it. Yet i may be wrong thats why I want to see the report thanks for your advise ill call my d.a. ( which is an uncle of mine) you know, that might be why ive had a hard time getting t huh?
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Post by meme on May 4, 2006 21:33:23 GMT -5
Mattsma, How heartbreaking- waiting 7 years to read the autopsy report. The words we read, the descriptions of how our beloved die become images in our minds. No matter what we do, the image is ALWAYS there. Yet, we HAVE to know the truth. That's human nature, no matter how painful the facts before us. There the facts are, printed in black and white screaming up at us.
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Post by toniann on May 4, 2006 22:10:42 GMT -5
MEME when they found Jessica, they brought in a big white van and told me not to look? I wasnt close enough nor would they let me close enough to see any blood or stuff. but GOD HIMSELF could not have kept me from watching the actions being taken. THAT WAS MY GIRL and I had to see all that I could, and I would have been hell to deal with had they told me NO!!!!!
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Post by Candice on May 5, 2006 21:21:53 GMT -5
Toniann You might try officially requesting the autopsy report under the Freedom of Information Act of 1974 ( I think the year is right) depending on the status of the case, they might release it to you. But I believe, depending on the state, you'll have to justify the reason for the request. I have a copy of my father's but I'm his daughter so they released it to me with the caution that I not release it publicly. I hope that helps a bit. Please keep us informed. My prayers are with you. All of ours are. Candice
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Post by toniann on May 22, 2006 14:48:09 GMT -5
Oh they (at the corocers office) sent me two request forms to send back with five dollars apiece for copies of what they said was external reports!!!!! Im curiouse now to see if the blood work will be included oxoxoxoxo toni
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Post by mattsma on May 22, 2006 20:12:21 GMT -5
:'(hi toni, Please take this as a gentle warning...........the autospy IS very detailed.
I do not know what the "external" reports might be.............. My heart is with you. b-safe deb
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Post by wordup on May 23, 2006 0:45:45 GMT -5
I'm with you on that one Deb, I remember my reaction as I was reading it, but I still wanted to read it, it stabs you in the heart.
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Post by toniann on May 23, 2006 14:22:17 GMT -5
Strange choice of words there Wordup!!!!!!she was stabbed and that is what will be on the report...What Im afraid is that the time of death will be after I returned home!!!!!Could she have seen me and didnt have the strength to cry out to me??? I was searching for her. All the F.B.I. agents and police were convinced she was being held inside the home with her cousin and after they were told there was a broken window and blood on the nieghbors window..........it took two hours to get permission to enter that house........what if she could have been still alive the time they spent on redtape? ? thats what my fear and nightmares are all about? i could have saved her before she bled out!!!!!!
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Post by wordup on May 24, 2006 0:23:15 GMT -5
Yeah.... toniann I guess you are right about the choice of words, but it is just what many times I felt, not only reading that thing but all the other things that came after it, for the most part it seem they should have just stuck me, they were killing me with what they were sending me through, I couldn't come up with a better way to describe it.
What you have said about saving her, Well I have looked at all of that too, and wondered what if so many times, only left with just that. So I know all to well what you are saying on this, and I think that is what we have all had to deal with at one point or another. I hope everything turns out with what you are looking for, Take care of yourself.
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Post by myamber20 on Jun 26, 2006 12:17:08 GMT -5
i couldnt get my ambers autopsy report yet it is still an opened case.
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Post by toniann on Nov 14, 2006 0:44:29 GMT -5
oh *deleted*, I forgot ta tell you guys, that Sammys report from the corenors office said that there where no drugs in his system!!!!! Wish I could say the same about Jessica! She had 15 oz of a dark carbinated substance (DR. PEPPER) and Hydreocodone for a earache .......I carry the mail from their report like a shrine I did not fall apart! Yall proud of me?toni
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Post by wordup on Nov 15, 2006 0:04:35 GMT -5
You better know it (smile)
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Post by pumpkin12903 on Nov 15, 2006 8:40:04 GMT -5
Dear Toniann, I hope all works out for you in this. Take care.
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