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Post by angelbaby on Sept 22, 2006 20:51:21 GMT -5
my baby sister disappeared out of her home in oklahoma 4 1/2 years ago.the whole thing just makes me so mad i wanna scream.we called the authorities after 2 days of not hearing from her.they went to the house and her husband said she just left.it did not coincide with what he told the authorities 2 days later when she was finally reported missing.the thing that made me know she did not just leave is we talked on the phone daily,her children were her whole world.her eye glasses,her contact,her cell phone,her new truck and all her credit cards were still there and her pay at the county sheriff's dept was never picked up.her husband lawyered up,he won't take a poloygraph and he refuses to comment to any of the news papers when they run articles.sometimes i feel like i am losing my mind.i cannot even start to heal when they cannot find her.i feel i shoul've been able to do something,i am the older sister......i try to stay in contact with the authorities and with her kids who are with the husband,even the oldest one who is my sisters daughter from a previous marriage...i just wish they would find her.then her husband will be behind baes where he belongs and the kids will be with my mother and me.........
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Post by taylor on Sept 23, 2006 6:56:13 GMT -5
angeleyes, I'm so sorry to hear about your sister. I think the not knowing is what does you in. I hope that she is found, so that she can be laid to rest and you can atleast have some peace in knowing you'll never have to worry where she is again. It's been 33yrs. and my dad's murderer or ers are still free. I still want justice, but know the odds of getting it are nearly impossible. Keep the faith, if it truly was her husband hopefully he'll eventually screw up. It's not your fault, do not carry that burden too. I'm glad you found this group. Once again, stay strong and I wish you the best possible outcome to this awful situation. T
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Post by pumpkin12903 on Sept 23, 2006 10:08:56 GMT -5
Dear angeleyes, I'm very sorry about your sister. I pray that justice will be done 1 day. It does sound like her husband did it. If he was innocent, why is he holding back info, etc., from the authorities? I'm glad you found this board and hope you find some comfort here.
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Post by angelbaby on Sept 23, 2006 12:16:50 GMT -5
this board is about the only thing that gives me any comfort.i keep the faith that one day he will have to answer for what he did.i do stay in contact with her kids,i talked to them a little while ago,i am going to get them over christmas break.....
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Post by taterfay on Sept 23, 2006 12:20:11 GMT -5
Once again, I am so sorry about your sister, angel eyes. I'm assuming from the way you describe her husband, that perhaps he abused her during their marriage? Maybe I'm wrong in assuming that. I am also the older sister of Sarah, who was a victim of domestic violence (her boyfriend beat her to death)..and I have had many days of feeling some sort of guilt. I think we all thought we could get her to leave him, etc. But none of could and it isn't anyone's fault. It makes absolutely no sense that he would refuse to cooperate unless he DID do it...ARGH. When will this crap stop (domestic violence)?? Hugs to you..please keep us updated, ok?? Stacey
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