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Post by keleigh77 on Aug 22, 2009 14:31:05 GMT -5
Hello, My Brother was brutally taken from us last August. Him and his roommate lived in North Carolina. Six kids broke into their home and Shot both of them, There was one of there friends there to but he survived six gun shot wounds all over his body, until just recently he was found dead a year later. He was the only eye witness to the case. Since last August Two girls and Four Boys have been caught and put into jail, they are going for Capital Murder on all six kids. This whole situation has been so hard on my Mother, Brother and I that all i do is just cry. There is always a song or something everyday that reminds me of him. We were best friends. Sometimes i feel like i did not have enough time with him and i feel so guilty. My Heart is so broken, but i have to face the world every day because i have two small children, who need me. I wish i had him back, I would hug him more and laugh with him more and be with him more. I am so sad!
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Post by pumpkin12903 on Aug 22, 2009 17:18:29 GMT -5
Hello, My Brother was brutally taken from us last August. Him and his roommate lived in North Carolina. Six kids broke into their home and Shot both of them, There was one of there friends there to but he survived six gun shot wounds all over his body, until just recently he was found dead a year later. He was the only eye witness to the case. Since last August Two girls and Four Boys have been caught and put into jail, they are going for Capital Murder on all six kids. This whole situation has been so hard on my Mother, Brother and I that all i do is just cry. There is always a song or something everyday that reminds me of him. We were best friends. Sometimes i feel like i did not have enough time with him and i feel so guilty. My Heart is so broken, but i have to face the world every day because i have two small children, who need me. I wish i had him back, I would hug him more and laugh with him more and be with him more. I am so sad! Dear keleigh77, I'm very sorry about your Brother. I'm glad you found this board and hope you find some comfort here. All the feelings you're having are normal. We think about our murdered loved 1's every day and there's nothing wrong with that. Our good memories of them help keep us sane after our tragedies. If you don't mind my asking, what's the status of your case? Is there going to be a trial? Again, welcome to the board and please let us know how you're doing. Take care.
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Post by keleigh77 on Aug 26, 2009 8:55:25 GMT -5
There will be a trial coming spring of 2010, there has been hearings for each person so far.
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Post by Janet-Beth's Mom on Aug 27, 2009 13:46:05 GMT -5
Dear Keleigh, I am so sorry your brother was taken from you, and that you and your family have to walk in the aftermath of murder. Like you, I wished I had done so many things differently too. How could we not wish that when we never ever wanted ANY of this. At the recommendation of my therapist, for over a year every morning I would look in the mirror and say out loud several times to reinforce it in my mind "No one knew what choices they were really making but the murderers". We should not have had to feel guilty for time not spent with them, or things we wished we had done differently. None of that is on us, it is all on the murderers. That is how I feel about it, but it took me a long time for my feelings to catch up with the logic of it. Saying it out loud to myself every day helped me along that way. I wish there were something I could do to make this easier for you, for me, for all of us. I hope that something we have to share can help you find your way along this path. I'll be praying for whatever bits of comfort there can be for you and your family, and that justice will be done.
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Post by keleigh77 on Sept 3, 2009 9:43:34 GMT -5
Thank you for the nice post Janet beth's Mom. Everyday i think about Heath and everyday i miss him.
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Post by audrey on Sept 8, 2009 15:06:47 GMT -5
I am so very sorry for your loss. I think dealing with the intense pain of a broken heart because of the loss is one thing. Then added is the violence. On top of that is the legal aspects. I don't know if that delays the healing or helps. I am sorry you have gone through this. My thoughts are with you. Audrey
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