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Post by supergirl20 on Jun 17, 2012 15:58:16 GMT -5
My dad was murdered by my brother this April. Today it being Father's Day is brutal for me; I don't know if I am strong enough to go on without him. Of course I knew my dad would die some day, but murdered, by my brother? He stabbed my dad over 100 times, and a knife was stuck in his chest I hate my brother for what he has done. We had a decent family life of course not perfect, but now it was destroyed in one sunday night. I am devastated, destroyed by this. I'm glad I found this forum I would like to connect with people like me in similar circumstances. The tragedy of having someone killed by another person in the same family is a double one; you lose more than one person at the same time. Thank you for letting me vent.
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Post by pumpkin12903 on Jun 20, 2012 6:27:29 GMT -5
My dad was murdered by my brother this April. Today it being Father's Day is brutal for me; I don't know if I am strong enough to go on without him. Of course I knew my dad would die some day, but murdered, by my brother? He stabbed my dad over 100 times, and a knife was stuck in his chest I hate my brother for what he has done. We had a decent family life of course not perfect, but now it was destroyed in one sunday night. I am devastated, destroyed by this. I'm glad I found this forum I would like to connect with people like me in similar circumstances. The tragedy of having someone killed by another person in the same family is a double one; you lose more than one person at the same time. Thank you for letting me vent. Dear supergirl20, I'm very sorry about your dad. I'm glad you found this board and hope you find some comfort here. My dad was murdered by my mother in 1990. You're 100% right in that we inter-family MVS have more to resolve and cope with. This was the 1st place I found other inter-family MVS which was a revelation! It's been a huge help to me and many other MVS. I'll write you a little bit more later when I have time as am wanting to tell you 1 more thing. Again, welcome to the board. Take care.
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Post by pumpkin12903 on Jun 20, 2012 10:11:45 GMT -5
Dear supergirl20, I also wanted to say that I know to a big degree how much hell you've been going through since the murder. You can make it through. The 1st few years after are the hardest. Please don't be hard on yourself. The emotions you're feeling are normal. You CAN make it through this. It takes work and a commitment to healing as best as possible. This place will help you as talking to other inter-family MVS helps you heal. If you want to know all that's helped me heal to the biggest degree possible you're welcome to ask. Take care.
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