“There is a principle which is a bar against all information, which is proof against all arguments and which cannot fail to keep a man in everlasting ignorance—that principle is contempt prior to investigation.” —Herbert Spencer
supergirl20: Hi all been pretty down latley, I guess the shock has worn off and greif set it
Feb 15, 2013 22:06:27 GMT -5
Janet-Beth's Mom: You are probably right Supergirl20, the shock does wear off gradually over time, & it can even come back at times when trauma issues are triggered. :-( I've been through many "stages" of grief with this homicide bereavement, some over & over ((HUGS))
Feb 18, 2013 15:01:58 GMT -5
Charlene: Janet, I have not figured out how to include the links to the main site but you can still find all of that content at www.murdervictims.com.
Feb 28, 2013 10:20:31 GMT -5
Janet-Beth's Mom: Thank you so much Char, I did not realize that link still worked. Perfect
Feb 28, 2013 14:28:36 GMT -5
euphie210: Does anyone come on here anymore?
Jul 30, 2013 13:53:54 GMT -5
Janet-Beth's Mom: Pumpkin and I come here every day. Some others do drop by on some days. Please feel free to start a thread if you wish
Aug 3, 2013 8:55:22 GMT -5
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Jun 26, 2014 11:20:17 GMT -5
pumpkin12903: Am very happy to see that I can post on the "Shoutbox" now! Wasn't able to until now. Have a good weekend everyone!
Jan 7, 2017 5:16:10 GMT -5
lgdatsme: I am here for the first time since my account was approved. My mother was the victim of a horrendous crime in April of 1975. She was raped and murdered by a man who she let in the house feeling completely safe. He killed her and hid her body.
Jan 9, 2017 12:08:26 GMT -5
lgdatsme: It took approximately 60 days to find her body. It was a capital crime in Texas. He confessed and was given 40 years. He got out and murdered another woman. He should have been executed. I have no feelings for him what so ever.
Jan 9, 2017 12:10:24 GMT -5
lgdatsme: I have blamed myself for not telling my family that he was not a good person and that I would no longer call him friend. A preacher told me that it had nothing to do with my negligence. (which is hard to swallow) It's still a mark on my soul.
Jan 9, 2017 12:19:03 GMT -5
lgdatsme: I am hoping this forum will help me find some solace. Talking to others who have lived through this horror.
Jan 9, 2017 12:20:07 GMT -5
pumpkin12903: Dear lgdatsme, I'm very sorry about your mother. I'm NOT surprised the perpetrator killed someone else. This happens way too much in life. This is a big reason in my view why death penalty or life without parole sentences are needed.
Jan 11, 2017 13:29:52 GMT -5
pumpkin12903: I can understand your struggle (to a degree) about not telling your family. Counseling helped me resolve that to a big degree. Welcome to the board and hope you find some peace here. Take care.
Jan 11, 2017 13:31:23 GMT -5
MaryD: It's been almost 31 years since our friend's murder. Last year was really rough for me as the "sadiversary" approached, but this year not as much. The main killer is in prison for the rest of his life if all goes well, and his accomplice is back in prison
Apr 25, 2018 18:10:30 GMT -5
pumpkin12903: Dear MaryD, am hoping with you that the perpetrator in your case will NEVER be free again and his accomplice will stay in prison also. In case I haven't yet given my condolences I'll do that now in regards to your friend. Take care.
Apr 26, 2018 19:30:11 GMT -5