JLara
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Post by JLara on Nov 2, 2004 17:17:57 GMT -5
It has been 23 years today since my dad murdered my mother who was 8 months pregnant. Both my mom and the baby died. She left behind four of us kids, I was 3 at the time. My mother was killed for her insurance policy. How can you put a price on someone's life? Over the years I thought this would get easier to deal with, but it has got harder. I miss my mom. Living life without her is unbearable. Knowing that my own father, my own flesh and blood killed her is torture. I love my mom very much, but when I think of my dad I have this sad and empty feeling. The pain will never go away. My heart will always ache. Now that my father sit's on death row, I will have lost both of my parents and the unborn child due to this horrible crime.
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Post by Christina on Nov 3, 2004 13:51:08 GMT -5
If you ever need to talk I am here. We are about to go through a very similar thing.It was my sister that was murdered by her husband this last may. He did it for a settlement check and a new girlfriend. He hasnt even been arrested yet. My nieces are 19 and 14. My 19 year old niece found out a month after her moms deatht that she is pregnant. She is due to have a baby boy in february. My sister always wanted a little boy. Instead of being a happy time it has become a hollow time, missing and needing her mom and knowing what her dad did. Two nights ago he kicked my 14 year old niece out and had his new woman and her daughter move in. He needed a room for her daughter since they are getting married. It's terrible pain. I can't look at tomorrow. I know this won't ever go away and we still have so much misery to look foward to when he finally is arrested. I completely sympathize.
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Post by Julie on Nov 3, 2004 15:10:39 GMT -5
Christina, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know this is a difficult time for you and your family. The pain will never go away, but it does make it a little more easier to deal with when you talk to someone that has gone through something similiar. You can email me anytime if you want to talk. I will always be here to listen. Take care, and GOD bless you and your family.
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Post by pumpkin12903 on Nov 5, 2004 18:47:21 GMT -5
Dear JLara, I'm so sorry about your Mom. It's devastating, the betrayal we feel, the pain, and the grief. I'm glad you've found this board and hope you get comfort here. It's been 14 years since my Mom murdered my Dad and Grandma. My pain has never left, though it's lessened. I think of them every day. Please let us know how you're doing. Take care-Laura
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Post by mary haro on Nov 16, 2004 20:20:00 GMT -5
i too have unfortunetely lived through a very similar traumatic experience. my father shot and killed my mom 15 years ago this aug. he shot her 7 times, as she lay sleeping. He received 17 to life for 2nd degree murder. At his last parole hearing this past july, he referred to his crime as an accident that resulted in his being partially disabled due to a gunshot wound he received I believe as a result of my mother trying to flee the locked bedroom they were in, He still has no regret except for the fact he is now serving a life sentence, he feels he should get out because he is "old" and will not do it again .. I too feel the same way as you, hw can your own flesh and blood do this. I too have lost both my parents, and must miss out on the love of my mother on those special occasions, like the birth of my son, my graduation, my marriage,,etc... if you would like to talk please feel free to contact me...@maria82540@yahoo. mary
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Post by cynthiak on May 30, 2005 19:20:47 GMT -5
I lost my mom almost 21 years ago. Ever need to vent about anything...we can talk.
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