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Post by purples on Jun 2, 2008 7:26:59 GMT -5
I recieve letters from my ex husband ( murderer) everyweek!! He says " he did it because he loved me so much " I read the letters, but i don't respond!! Oh I have alot to say, but he doesn't deserve my time. I think if i wrote him back, he'll start thinking that i want him back in our lives. You'll never really understand why they did what they done! The answer prob. wouldn't be what you would like to hear! So why waste your time and energy !!
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Post by taterfay on Jun 19, 2008 12:58:01 GMT -5
Gosh, I'm sorry! Isn't there anyway that he can be prevented from sending you letters? I'm sorry he's so clueless!
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Post by drewsmom595 on Jun 20, 2008 5:10:54 GMT -5
The good thing about letters is you can choose to read them or not choose to read them. You can respond to them or not respond to them.
I receive letters from my brother occasionally (who murdered our dad), but I usually don't write him back either. It just takes too much emotional energy.
He calls me once every few months and the number doesn't show up on caller ID as anything more specific than Private Number. So it's harder to ignore the phone calls unless I stop answering my phone entirely.
I'm sorry you're going through this. You know him best, so you would know if having further contact with him cause him to think you want to get back together. Take care and you have my sympathies.
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Post by carolyn on Jun 21, 2008 5:24:41 GMT -5
You can get a no contact order done if you do not want the letters sent to you
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