Lisa
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Post by Lisa on Oct 31, 2003 16:56:30 GMT -5
I just got word of my dad's trial on Monday. He was sentenced to 10 yrs in prison. I personally think that, that isn't long enough. I just can't stop thinking about the victim (Gayle), and her children. She is gone forever and it's totally not fair that my dad gets 10 yrs, sooner if he gets paroled, and she will never take another breath. I will definately be at his parole hearing to keep him in longer. I'm not even sure if he understands what he has done to the full extent. I think he needs more time to reflect on how he has hurt everyone around him. Thanks for listening.
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BethMariansChild
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May the Great Goddess bless you in whatever path you choose.
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Post by BethMariansChild on Oct 31, 2003 19:22:36 GMT -5
Lisa,
I think it is very brave of you to want to appear at your father's possible future parole hearings to advocate for longer prison term. Even if those hearings never occur, your heart is in the right place.
It is wonderful that you are able to identify with the murder victim's survivors in such a sweet and open way. So many perpetrator's family members seem to forget about them entirely.
So, how has this event effected you? I'm sure it has hurt you in many ways, but will wait for your response before I speculate any further.
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Lisa
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Post by Lisa on Nov 1, 2003 11:47:08 GMT -5
Thank you for asking Beth. I'm not sure if this is where I'm supposed to reply back or not. Still trying to get used to this system. It is really hard for me. It's been a year and I'm finding it no easier than I did the night I recieved the phone call. I'm confused as to what I should tell my own children. I've thought about lying and saying he has died, but I don't think that would be right. I've thought about telling the truth, but don't want them to go through what I'm going through. I will probably have a while to think about it since they are still young. I try to hate my father, but am unable. I hate what he has done. I feel guilty as to the way I feel. I think if it were anyone else I didn't know than I would hate them, but because he has the title as my father, I can't seem to feel the way I think I should be feeling. It is truely devastating, and don't see it getting any easier. Thanks again.
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