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Post by pebles on Mar 25, 2006 0:19:20 GMT -5
In 1999 My only son Jon first graduated in June of 1999, became a Father on Aug. 12, 1999, asked his girlfriend for her hand in Aug. too, got married on December 27, 1999 then on January 31, 2000 my son passed away from a gunshot wound to the upper chest!! He lived for 5 days after he was shot. Now here goes on what happened the week-end they came back from their honeymoon all his wife talked about was quiting her job and getting child support and alimony because she said her mom said she could get a lot from Jon!! Then the night before she quit her job and since they both worked at the same place I had to go pick him up that night after work! He came to my house and he was going to call her but a message said for him not to call, so he went on to bed. Next morning he called to see if he could spend some time with his daughter and she dropped her off with one diaper and half bottle of milk! I then left but I contacted my mother to go back and get my money I left at the house, Jon was holding his daughter and running the sweeper and as my mother was leaving his wife pulled up and I went about 6 city blocks and it came over my police scanner that a man had been shot at our address! I beat the police there, the front door locked, I saw her over him and banged on door she unlocked it then I saw where my son had been shot on the upper right part of his chest, I noticed a black ring sorta big around the wound, I looked up at her and she had blood more on her face and in her hair, on her clothes but she is saying she was outside and he was in the bedroom when it happened!! All so she said that she hit him 4 to 6 times in the face and other places and he hit her one time! No they never arrested her, they did take her to get finger printed and get a statement from her, never asked my son nothing and he was talking to the paramedics. Oh yes my granddaughter was to have been in the room with him but there was no blood on her but was under her car seat, she was sound to sleep to I had to yell and shake her foot to wake her??, and how did he get to the front room? He was right handed and shot in the right shoulder?? Why has she told about umpteen different stories on what happened that day but now she says she can not remember anything nor what he looks like now!! They went together for 4 years off and on. From what I was told by her own mother she washed some of the blood off before she called 911, and how could she had loved him on the day I buried my only son we were home about 2 hours give and take and she went parting and never saw her or heard from her for 3 days?? She was so scared my son would wake up at the hospital and tell her to leave and I asked why and she said she can just feel it!! If anyone wants to know anything else let me know? Oh yes so far she has walked but before I die she will pay if not in this life time then she will have to face the Maker.. There has been a lot that has happened since then like the police have told me that they were so sorry that they messed up on the investigation. You see they left my doors to the crime scene where anyone could go in and out of the house because I stayed with my son at a hospital 46 miles away and she said when the police got done with her she went to her dads and took a shower and put clean clothes on before getting over there! 4 to 6 hours later! Oh she took a lie detector test under the influence of drugs and she was so high that she even got her hand or fingers caught in the window while flipping out a cigarette.. Now can everyone see what I am going through and to this day she has been in and out of trouble on drugs gave her daughter to her mom on temporary custody and broke into my home 2 times and bragged about who and what she has been with,, Now she wants to be a mom and you know how can she look at that little girl in the eyes after taking her daddy away one way or another!!?? Thanks for Reading this. I live this day everyday and I can still see my son's face and body and also that was the last time I heard his voice.. I miss him so much that I have not or will not give up on finding out the truth and until I do I will never rest or feel at ease until Justice is served!!
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Post by meme on Mar 25, 2006 13:09:28 GMT -5
Pebies, So sorry for your loss. How can people do such things? Are you part of a support group? Is this case still open? Guilty murderers simply have no conscious and no remorse. Their lives are void of love, so they turn to drugs, alcohol, and weird relationships. _________________________________________________________________ The child needs to be kept away from that vile murderer. Call Children's Protectie Services. I think SHE may not harm the child, for she would lose the child's social security death benefit payment each month. Any one of her drug buddies could present harm. And, the murderer needs the child's money to buy drugs, so she'll be compelled to keep the child alive. Sick! ____________________________________________________________ Justice is a dish best served with Pepto-Bismol.
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lilbird
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Post by lilbird on Mar 26, 2006 14:47:23 GMT -5
Pebles, that is so messed up!!! Are you allowed to see your granddaughter? i'm so sorry for the loss of your son.
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Post by pumpkin12903 on Mar 27, 2006 11:14:21 GMT -5
Dear Pebles, I'm very sorry about your son and am glad you found this site. Take care.
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Post by wordup on Mar 28, 2006 0:24:34 GMT -5
Man, I'm with Lilbird on this, that was truly messed up, I mean what are they saying that he shot himself, or she was saying what? how could she be walking around today? this is just unbeliveable. I hope her constious eat at her and that she never find peace until she comes clean with what happend that day.
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Post by pebles on Mar 28, 2006 15:19:13 GMT -5
No they are not going to do anything our so called police department but they do say how sorry they are for messing up on the investagation and left the door open for anyone to come in that night when they left.. Also they would not go and get the shotgun from under the bed, they kept yelling (the police) where's the gun, get the gun, until I went into my bedroom and hand to get on all fours and reach 1/2 way under the bed to get it by barrow first.. But guess what they could not find finger prints or the ones they did were smuged and they said the one on the shell were uh they say it was "too hot" so they did not even do that.. Yes they are trying to say it was suicide but no one and I mean no one measured his arms and he had his shoes on but no shirt ( she told me she had spit on it ug gross) I did email the Attorney General and he said if Gov. Taft says he can he wants to reopen his case but Gov. Taft says he does not have the time.. So Please I could use all the help oh yes I went to attornies but all they end up saying is "If you were rich they would have done the right thing but since I was a poor girl and Jon was no Angel (He is now) during his shot life that no one cares except his family!!! And you know they are right! Oh by the way the police and I went althrough the house to find other shelles for the shotgun But never found one, not one> But then after I tell my so called daught in law that same day or the next her and 3 friends came down and low and behold she found 3 (different colors) in the trash box that I had started to clean up the stuff in my bedroom!! Weried things happened when she came around.. but then her friends starting to feel guilty and said that she brought the 3 shells from her dad's house and after I told the police they still did nothing!! Please feel free to ask me anything on my son, and by the way after 5 days being shot he somehow died of a heart attack, but compare to hes auptopsy his heart was in good shape and so was his whole body!! So tell me what really happened the night before he died she came up missing and from the time the doctors said he was going to make it and 6 ot 8 hours later my son had a heart attack in fact he had three!! Help and please feel free to contact me at my email address too mommaangl@yahoo.com I hope I was a loud to give it to you because I need this place for help and support!! Thank You Again, Jodie
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Post by wordup on Mar 29, 2006 0:44:50 GMT -5
This sure sound strange to me, and you know what, that attorney told you right, and it is sad that one is looked on that way, no money no help, but I know there has to be someone out there that could find it in their heart to help with this, I personally feel what you are saying, as there were a lot of unanswerd questions in my case, come and vent when ever you feel like it, we are here for you. and understand your pain, I pray that something will happen soon that will be of help to you.
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Post by meme on Mar 30, 2006 20:00:29 GMT -5
So sorry about your son. How awful not to receive law enforcement help. See if there were any insurance policies, call the SBI. She probably slipped and said something to one of her "friends" who went with her to make the discovery of three different colored shell casings. If the DA thinks they cannot prosecute and win, they won't charge the murderer. Prove the arm length & gun length won't work as self-inflicted. _______________________________________________ Sometimes the nearby University will have classes on criminal justice & they will take up a case to study, provided you convince their professor, at no cost to you.
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Post by meme on Apr 26, 2006 15:37:27 GMT -5
Hey, just wondering how things are going. Keep us posted. We care.
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Post by toniann on Apr 28, 2006 0:03:37 GMT -5
Well I live in a small town where they(police) basically tell you to take care of things like that yourself, I have an uncle or two that would have .Only because we have learned that the law wont. I told our law ppl about what was going to happen to my daughter a year before, I tried to keep her away but she truly loved her cousin. never believed he would hurt her. Sometimes we cant trust the law.
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