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Post by friends4ever on Nov 4, 2007 22:23:41 GMT -5
I'm not sure why, but it is looking like this year is going to be a tough one..... Becky's birthday was November 13th and I'm crying myself to sleep already. I think it's because now that her daughters are 17 and 19 they are asking me more questions and voicing how much they miss her, prior to this year I was not allowed to visit with them much.
December 27th will be 12 years since my brother murdered her, I hope I deal better on that date.
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Post by pumpkin12903 on Nov 5, 2007 8:58:32 GMT -5
Dear friends4ever, birthdays are so hard because our loved 1's were taken away from us because of an evil act. The same with the sadiversary. Know that we're here for you and ready to listen. Take care.
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Post by drewsmom595 on Nov 6, 2007 21:02:17 GMT -5
I'm sorry you're having such a hard time. Pumpkin's right...birthdays and sadiversaries are really difficult. So are holidays, which I know are coming up. Please be extra gentle with yourself, and know we care.
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Post by taterfay on Nov 8, 2007 18:28:21 GMT -5
I'm really sorry you are going through this, sweetie. Autumn used to (and still is to a degree) my favorite season but between September and January...so much tragedy. Take it one day at a time! Big Hugs! Stacey
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Post by friends4ever on Nov 11, 2007 1:25:24 GMT -5
Thank you all! I am alot better today, Becky's birthday is Tuesday so we will see how that goes.
I did get some good news, my daughter is pregnant so I have something exciting to focus on and look forward to.
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