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Post by not2sure on Mar 5, 2008 16:16:42 GMT -5
I am so glad that I found this web-site. My sister passed 4 years ago Halloween night and left 3 beautiful children in this world. My mom can't really talk about it, blames herself and has pretty much just crawled into a shell when it comes to talking about Angie. <made me cry to type her name> The man she was living with said he turned the corner to quick and went into the ditch, a pole came through the window and hit my sister. He came out with a cracked collar bone and she passed away a week later. There was alot of head trauma and she just couldn't hang on anymore. There are a few parts that we are having trouble with... after the passing of my sister we learned a lot from her friends. He had been arrested for beating his ex with a pipe in the face, he had been to anger management classes (court ordered), he has a history of violence. Not only after the wreck did he call a friend to pick them up, when his friend showed up his friend said that she needed to go to the hospital and the boyfriend said she was just drunk and passed out. That friend left wanting nothing to do with it. He called another friend to come get them. That friend came and got them and my sisters boyfriend told him to go to his mothers house because he was on probation for a DWI and no one could know. So not only did they PASS a hospital, when they got to his moms house, they pushed my sister into the driveway and the friend left. The mom called 911. I am sorry for rambling but it feels so good to get this out, I need to talk about her. Nothing has been done to this guy, he was drunk when he was driving, the bar told the police they had to kick him out because he drank quite a bit and became beligerent. I have e-mailed the DA in the county and have had no response. I'm lost as to what to do, but something needs to be done. How am I going to tell my 10 year old niece and 13 year old nephew when they are older that nothing happened to that man. That hurts so bad. Thank yall so much for listening, its nice to know when I have my very bad days I have a place to come.
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Post by pumpkin12903 on Mar 6, 2008 11:02:43 GMT -5
Dear not2sure, I'm very sorry about your Sister. You may want to contact Parents of Murdered Children about advice on how to keep pursuing your Sister's friend. There's a link to them on this site. Is there a Victims' Assistance office in your city? They may be able to help, too. I hope justice is done in your case. Feel free to vent as much as you need on here, as we understand and care. Welcome to the board. Take care.
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Post by drewsmom595 on Mar 6, 2008 19:48:38 GMT -5
I am so sorry for your loss. In addition to trying to contact the DA, I would contact the local law enforcement agency (police or Sheriff) that covers the area where your sister was left in the driveway and/or where the drunk man hit the pole. Leaving the scene of an accident is a crime...especially where there's injuries involved.
Something definitely needs to be done. I am outraged about this. Please let us know how you are doing and what the updates are.
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Post by wordup on Mar 6, 2008 23:19:36 GMT -5
That is just awful, 4yrs and what? They just decided it ws an accident? ?, what about the pass records and the fact that he had been drinking and driving, Are they saying because they wasn't at the sene where all this happened it couldn't be looked into, and what about going to the mom house, Doesn't this say something is not right, Where is the guy now, I do hope this thing turn around for you guys, How's the children doing , who are they with? I hope I didn't ask to many question, Take care.
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Post by not2sure on Mar 7, 2008 14:58:54 GMT -5
Thank yall so much for listening. This guy is still in the same town, 2 weeks after my sister passed away he was dating her neighbor. It disgust me a great deal, I have no idea why he hasnt been arrested and served time. I still have not heard from the DA and I will be calling the local PD to see if there is anything else that can be done. Sadly to say my oldest nephew now 21 is having the worst time with it. He took off feeling much guilt about his mom because he didn't let anyone know what all was going on and the issues she was having with him. Apparently he influenced my nephew with various drugs, he has left town and we havent heard from him for awhile. My sister called me one night crying hysterically that he had been thrown in jail for a DWI and she was at a friends house and she was scared to death to tell his mom because she was very hateful to her. They arent a very nice family, you could tell his mom was doing all the talking and he had nothing to say. He had pulled a gun on her and my oldest nephew one night and shot a hole in the wall about 3 inches from my nephews head. This guy is not a good person and it amazes me that nothing has been done and that I can't get an answer from the DA. You would think that someone with his record would be investigated. The only thing that I can think of is that it is a small town, but still I can't imagine politics playing a part in this guy being free. The younger kids are doing pretty good. Youngest nephew just turned 13 yesterday and we are getting them for Spring Break. I am so blessed to have them in my life. Thank yall so much for listening and asking questions. It is nice to get things off my chest. Sincerely , Missy
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Post by not2sure on Mar 7, 2008 15:05:11 GMT -5
By the way the kids (all have the same dad) are living with their dad, but the dad now a new girlfriend and pretty much have left them with his ex until he gets a new house. I will be asking him after the school year ends if they can come live with us. They will have a lot more stability and many more oppritunities. It's very hard for my niece to understand why 2 people that she loved very much are longer around. My sisters boyfriend was with her for 5 years, he was like her second dad and for her to find out that he killed her mom, I mean there are not enough hugs for her. It sickens me. Thank you for asking, all in all they are doing pretty good, just wish I could find the oldest one, he needs us and we need him.
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