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Post by Janet-Beth's Mom on Nov 17, 2011 13:39:49 GMT -5
Here they come again - the holidays. So many things that should have (and could have) just been happy, now can be filled with triggers. For those who might not yet know, Charlene is the wonderful lady who makes this board available to us so we can share. Some years ago she asked regular board members here if they could think of suggestions that might help some of us get through the holidays just a bit easier. There is a link at the top "Holidays and Grief" that will take you to these helpful suggestions anytime you want to see. Or you could also click here: www.murdervictims.com/Holidays.htmI have tried some of those suggestions over the years that have helped me to get through the hard parts better. I hope there are some things in there that might help some of you too. and if anyone else here would like to share something that has helped them along the way, that would be wonderful too. Janet
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Post by chelle25 on Dec 4, 2011 16:19:59 GMT -5
this year i plan to buy a special ornament to hang on the tree we planted at my aunt's grave. it's something i feel represents her spirit. if you don't have a tree you could plant one near the grave if there is room. you could donate to charity in memory of your loved one also. oh, any for my dad i have special wreaths made for him and have them placed on his grave.
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Post by pumpkin12903 on Dec 14, 2011 14:02:19 GMT -5
I'm struggling more than usual this year. I've had some unusual stresses since October. That always flares up my PTSD and panic disorder. But, am doing what I need to do. The holidays are never completely the same without our loved 1's and/or friends. But, think of how much worse it would be without our great memories. The memories do help. I just remembered I still haven't written a sadiversary update for earlier this year. Things have been very hectic! I'll get to it when I can. I wish everyone on here the best during the holidays!
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