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Post by jen2003g on Jan 18, 2012 15:15:34 GMT -5
Jeremy Kye Gibson is was tortured and murdered in lafayette, IN on July 6, 2011. Jeremy is my brother and I am now raising his 2 very small boys. There were 3 murderers, Antonio Williams, Carolann Clear and Darren Englert. It is hard still to talk about what all they did to him, so putting his name in google is what I tell people to do. Antonio Williams was pronounced dead the 16th on my sister and my birthday! I have so many mixed feelings about it that I can't think of anything else! He confessed to what he did and what the others did and led police to Jeremy's body and was a HUGE part of the case for murderer and conspirasy for all three of them. Now he is dead and trial is set for May 1st. Worried about how this may effect the case even with his confession and Carolann's partial confession not to mention evidence, I don't see any of them getting out of any of the charges, but i am worried. Not to mention, I was really hoping he would tell us what Jeremy was saying as they were the last people to see him, Antonio was the only one out of the 3 I thought may do that and now he is dead! Finding it hard to decide how I feel about him dying, kind of glad because 1 less trial and he can't hurt anyone again, but kinda sad for his family and daughter. Sometimes I wish I could just not think into things, seems like it would be easier to not! What does this mean for the trial? And, has anyone else on here had mixed emotions about the people or person that killed their loved one? sad sister!
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Post by pumpkin12903 on Jan 19, 2012 7:36:21 GMT -5
Jeremy Kye Gibson is was tortured and murdered in lafayette, IN on July 6, 2011. Jeremy is my brother and I am now raising his 2 very small boys. There were 3 murderers, Antonio Williams, Carolann Clear and Darren Englert. It is hard still to talk about what all they did to him, so putting his name in google is what I tell people to do. Antonio Williams was pronounced dead the 16th on my sister and my birthday! I have so many mixed feelings about it that I can't think of anything else! He confessed to what he did and what the others did and led police to Jeremy's body and was a HUGE part of the case for murderer and conspirasy for all three of them. Now he is dead and trial is set for May 1st. Worried about how this may effect the case even with his confession and Carolann's partial confession not to mention evidence, I don't see any of them getting out of any of the charges, but i am worried. Not to mention, I was really hoping he would tell us what Jeremy was saying as they were the last people to see him, Antonio was the only one out of the 3 I thought may do that and now he is dead! Finding it hard to decide how I feel about him dying, kind of glad because 1 less trial and he can't hurt anyone again, but kinda sad for his family and daughter. Sometimes I wish I could just not think into things, seems like it would be easier to not! What does this mean for the trial? And, has anyone else on here had mixed emotions about the people or person that killed their loved one? sad sister! Dear jen2003g, I'm very sorry about your brother. I'm glad you found this board and hope you find some comfort here. I understand to a degree your mixed feelings about the murderer. I had a family member murder 2 family members in 1990. I think I'll have mixed feelings the rest of my life. You can contact Parents of Murdered Children for advice on going to trial. There's a link to them on here. You can also check to see if there's a "Victims Assistance" office in your area. I wish you the best with all this. Again, welcome to the board. Take care.
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Post by mom2young on Jan 20, 2012 21:43:36 GMT -5
so sorry for your loss, I will post later, my kids are nearby and hard to have time to write. Everyday in the paper,news, we are reminded of what happened to our loved one. Over, and over again. It gets bearable eventually , but never goes away. It is not cancer, or car accident, our loved one was taken and we all feel your pain. Keep posting and vent your feelings anytime!
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Post by haesunrichardson on Feb 24, 2012 21:29:26 GMT -5
My deepest sympathy for your loss and a grand admiration for dedicating your life to your nephews. You will draw strength from them who are so blessed to have an aunty like you. My brother left me a nephew too who is with his mother. I believe the feelings you are experiencing is absolutely normal, especially so because you are a kind, gentle, loving, compassionate human being unlike the killers out there. That is the difference between the murderers and us victims. They don't carry any human qualities within themselves. If there is positive evidence the jury should have no problem concluding in a guilty verdict. I can relate with you, my mom and brother were murdered 11yrs next week. I got lost for 8yrs and if I can share anything to help another from going thru what I went thru, I'm here. You hang in there, my prayers are with you and your family.
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Post by melody on Mar 15, 2012 2:05:16 GMT -5
Jen2003, not sure if you are checking here anymore, but I will reply anyway. My brother was murdered in a semi similar manner. You have more detailed descriptions from the culprits. The convicted murderers in my brother's case chose to be less than forthright. I however know what my brother said in his final moments and I hate that those were his last words.
My brother was stabbed in his neck, severing his artery. I have been told by the coroner that it only took up to 90 seconds for him to die which in whatever weird way is encouraging to me. There was definitely a struggle, but I know at no point until he was cut did my brother think his life was in danger.
I am so sorry you are facing all of this.
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Post by c21king2queen on Apr 12, 2012 16:26:56 GMT -5
I think the mixed emotions and wondering what it means for the case is normal. I think I would feel the same. I am still waiting for trial for my husband's murder. One of the suspects plead guilty and agreed to testify against the other last summer. In 2 weeks it will be exactly 4 years since my husband was murdered. I am still waiting for Justice, all the answers, and truth. I have no idea if my husband said any last words or what they were. I was told that he never knew what hit him. I think the shooter shot from a window inside the house and my husband was outside. One shot to the back of the head literally blew his head off. He was dead for 3 days before his body was found in a shallow grave. They had to send a special team back to the crime scene to try to collect the pieces of his skull. There is still a piece missing, like my life. If I were you I would be bugging the DA's office to find out what this means for the case. If it were me, in a way I would feel like his death was in a sense...God's Justice, a life for a life. Death should be the only way out for these murderers. I know you still have to wait for a trial for the other suspects. They should have the statement and evidence from the suspect that has died. They should still be able to use that. My heart and prayers go out to you.
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