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Post by michael on Jun 20, 2003 21:23:18 GMT -5
It has been over a year since Stephanie was murdered and no clue yet. Any one who says the first year is the worst....well, there is such a thing as morbid grief. A couple people on the old board had expressed an interest in seeing the st pat's card that Steph wrote but did not know where to send. (None of the people that could have put us in contact did so) Here is the text and it is late because I could not find it.........It will be later yet, 'cause it is gone again. The shrink at the VA said I was depressed (?) but dysfunctional is more like it. The card was written a few weeks before she was murdered along with Sarah Jane. More later.
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Post by Samantha - Urai's Daughter on Jun 25, 2003 16:37:16 GMT -5
I would certainly love to see the St Pats day card, glad to see you over here on the new board.
The first year was sheer hell for me Michael. Gary wasn't arrested for almost a year after he killed Mom, they were waiting on DNA analysis to confirm their suspicions. At least that technology was available, I can't imagine some people's cases who have DNA as evidence when the technology wasn't avialable and are still waiting.
I wouldn't say you are dysfunctional, merely normal. Who goes about life like before a murder?!? It changes everything and it changes everyone differently. Do they have you on some medication to help with the depression? I still take mine, I can't imagine what my life would have been without it then AND now.
I will say a special prayer for you, Stephanie and Sarah Jane. Keep us posted on any updates....
(((HUGS))) Sam
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